What an amazing summer!

It’s been a great summer hasn’t it!

  It’s so great to see everyone coming back from the pandemic and getting back to the things that they love, including KMMA!

And what a great Summer we’ve had already at KMMA!

The great Sensei Ben Borton led an amazing Martial Arts Training & Leadership “Rank Camp”!

  He and his assistants provided amazing training and the students had fun, worked hard and learned a lot. Most even promoted in rank!

 

We had an awesome graduation and fundraiser event!

 

Superheroes Came To Help Us Celebrate!

 

    And we even raised $5,000 we were able to donate to The Human Trafficking Foundation!

 

Most recently, my friend and mentor Grand Master Jeff Smith came and sowed into students and team and, wow, was that an awesome weekend!

Oh, yeah, and I even published my first book!

 

And of course during all of this all of the incredible training that is the norm at KMMA has continued, many have started their journies and many more keep moving on to next levels on the way to Blackbelt Leadership and beyond!

You can start your journey here.

 

But the summer isn’t over yet!

   We have a couple of other great events left!

Finish summer strong by joining us!

Youth & Family: Krav Maga Martial Arts Summer Martial Arts & Leadership Camp 2! July19th-30th

Teens & Adult: Weekend Intensive Training Course (ITC)

KMMA students, community & guests: KMMA Pizza Party!

 

TampaKravMaga.com

 

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TampaKravMaga.com and Krav Maga Martial Arts have been empowering lives through the martial arts in the Tampa Bay area for 20 years!

Founded in 2000 by Grandmaster Stephen J. Del Castillo, a 7th degree Black Belt and Sr. Master Instructor, Krav Maga Martial Arts and Karate lessons for pre-school children ages 3-6 and elementary age kids ages 7 and up are designed to develop the critical building blocks kids need – specialized for their age group – for school excellence and later success in life.

Krav Maga Martial Arts Adult Krav Maga training is a complete adult self defense, fitness, and conditioning program for adults who want to learn real world self defense, lose weight, and/or get (and stay in shape).

If you have any questions about our program, or would like to go ahead redeem your 2 weeks FREE, you can call us anytime at 813-547-6368 or visit our Krav Maga Martial Arts website.

About Grandmaster Stephen J. Del Castillo: Grandmaster Del Castillo is the founding Master Instructor of Krav Maga Martial Arts and has been empowering lives in Pasco and Hillsborough Counties since October of 2000. He is a 7th degree Blackbelt, MBA, author, mentor and success coach, a US Army Veteran and a proud father and grandfather. He is married to Ms. Barbara Del Castillo who helps him run the school. Grand Master Del Castillo began his training in the early 80’s and has high level blackbelts in Tae Kwon Do, Karate, Premier Martial Arts and Krav Maga Martial Arts as well as experience in kickboxing, Jeet Kune Do and Jiujitsu. He has high level instructor certifications from BBSI, IKMF, and KMG and has been featured in numerous Martial Arts publications and also Success magazine. He was a competitive sport karate and American Kickboxing instructor until he enlisted in the US Army where he served in the 82nd Airborne Division, where he won an Army Green to Gold scholarship and proceeded to ROTC and the University of Tampa. He was commisioned in 1992 and went on to serve in Germany with the 3rd Infantry Division and then in several other posts in the US until he left military service to pursue his dream of creating KMMA in 2000.

The Krav MagaMartial Arts Headquarters is in Lutz, FL at 1900 Land O’ Lakes Blvd., 33549. Krav Maga Martial Arts serves Lutz, Land O’ Lakes, Wesley Chapel, and surrounding areas.

Also, check us out on Fun4TampaKids & on Go2Karate.com

 

 

Superpower #4: Confidence

 

Today we get to talk about one of my favorite Blackbelt Leadership Superpowers- Confidence!

Henry Ford once said, “rather you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right”.

I agree! Confidence, or the lack thereof, is one of the prime indicators of the degree of success that one will achieve in any pursuit.

 

I LOVE teaching Confidence because it is so fun to watch a young (or not so young), shy and/or not confident person develop it, and then apply it to winning in the martial arts and in life!

And it’s a transformation I get to witness countless times on many, many students Blackbelt Leadership transformation!

 

Fires me up!

Enjoy today’s excerpt from my book, and take this Confidence challenge from me today:

 

If you’re not yet a student or have a child you’d like us to develop Confidence in, pick up the phone and call us, or visit us online at TampaKravMaga.com

 

And if you are a student, think about who you know that could benefit increased Confidence and the other Blackbelt Leadership Superpowers and invite them to try a class with you.

 

Prepare To Live; Empower To Lead!

Grand Master Stephen J. Del Castillo

Author, Motivational Teacher, MBA, 7th Degree Blackbelt

Founder & Chief Master Instructor, Krav Maga Martial Arts

 


 

4.3 Are You Credible?

 

Focus your ears, because I got a very important lesson for you today. In my new book, which is really, really right about to be published, I’ve started calling our foundational Blackbelt attributes Superpowers, because I really think that they are. I’m going to talk to you more about those superpowers, all of them, that we want you to develop first on the way to becoming a Blackbelt.  The one specifically that we’re going to talk about today is confidence. And confidence is one of my favorite, favorite superpowers, because confidence is one that puts fuel and power into all the rest. You can honestly have several of the other superpowers or just things that you’re great at, but because of a lack of confidence, not be able to share those gifts with the world.

 

One of the first things that we try to develop in our future Blackbelt leaders is confidence. But confidence is actually a form of something that I’ve been teaching a lot on lately, I’ve been writing on, and talking about trust.  The team and I are reading a great book, which I recommend everybody to read, it’s by Dr. Stephen Covey’s son, Stephen M.R. Covey. And the book is called The Speed of Trust. In fact, everything I’m about to share with you I took from that book (in all transparency, but I’m sure that Stephen Covey’s very, very happy that I’m sharing it with you today).

 

So… trust; and when we talk about trust, what’s the more common theme? Usually when we think about trust, we think about whether we trust somebody.  In reality though, there are two important parts in trust, just like there are two important parts in confidence:  trust in others and trust in ourselves.  How do we gain trust? What is the thing that causes us to trust somebody, including ourselves? It’s another C-word, and the word is credibility.

 

You’ve probably heard the word credibility before. But ironically, you probably heard it in a negative context. You heard it in a court of law, something like, “Is he a credible witness?”  Right? Because credibility does ask, what is the amount of trust that I can give this person? Are they credible? Credibility is relevant to everything. Your sensei must have credibility. If your sensei didn’t have credibility with you, then the rest of the process could not work; because if you don’t believe, you can’t achieve.

 

So the next question would be, and hopefully some of you are thinking it, well, then how do you develop credibility? What does credibility mean? When we talk about credibility, there are really two parts. First, there’s character.  In fact, if you were guessing what I was going to say, that’s probably the one most people thought about. When most people think about trust, when most people think about credibility, they think of character. But there is another piece that has to be there. Any guesses?

 

The second part is competence.  Character involves a lot of the other things that we teach here, what we call the principles of the Blackbelt (courtesy, modesty, integrity, perseverance, self-control, and the indomitable spirit). Our Blackbelts develop these traits on the way to becoming Blackbelts:  that’s character. But even if one of my Blackbelts became a sensei and had all of those things, would you trust them to teach you if their martial arts sucked?  No, you wouldn’t.  If they couldn’t perform good martial arts, if they couldn’t teach in a way that caused you to learn good martial arts, you wouldn’t want to learn from them. For example, who would trust me to perform surgery on you or a loved one? No one, I hope. Because that’s an area where I do not have competence. I haven’t been to medical school, I’m not a doctor.

 

So then, we need both character and competence. To delve deeper into character, there are two cores that create character, and these two are I’s:  integrity and intent.

 

When most people think about integrity, they think about the word honesty. But I’m here to tell you that when we talk about integrity, we mean even more than that. When we teach integrity, we say “integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.” That’s one of the many faces of integrity.

 

Another definition (from the Army days, many, many years ago) is “meaning what we say what saying what we mean”.  Both are equally important.  When most people think integrity, again, they’re thinking about the one that I say what I mean. They’re thinking the one that I don’t lie, that I don’t cheat, I don’t steal. And all those things are important. But do I follow through on the things that I say I will do? That’s integrity too. And by the way, when you were shaking your head, you were thinking about yourself, probably. And that’s okay because everybody, in truth, feels that sometimes; but that’s the point.  See, in order to trust yourself, you have to develop integrity with yourself. And the way we develop integrity with ourselves is when we say, “I will do whatever the thing is.” You have to do it. At least you have to do it more times than you don’t. Because if you tell yourself, “I’m going to get up at six o’clock in the morning to exercise,” or “to read” or “to… whatever” and one day you hit the clock and you don’t get up. And then the next day you hit the clock and you don’t get up. And the next day you hit … You know what you will eventually tell yourself? You will tell yourself, “Why am I setting this clock? I’m obviously not going to get up.” You’ve lost integrity with yourself. So keep this in mind because it’s so important.  Here we teach people how to have integrity in that way too. I don’t think we talk about it enough, but we believe “Quitters never win and winners never quit.” Everybody that’s wearing this blue top made a commitment to become a Blackbelt leader one day. You signed something saying … And I’m not challenging your integrity, I believe all of you are going to do it, by the way to be clear. But I’m saying, if you don’t, you’ve just broken integrity to yourself and to me and to everybody else that’s helping you. Because that’s what integrity means, is that we do what we say we’re going to do. Oss?

But what about intent? What if your sensei did have the character, and they did have the competence. I mean, they had the character, meaning they had the integrity piece and they have the competence, but you don’t believe they have your best interest in mind. You don’t believe that they care about you. Would you trust that sensei?  No. We also have to believe that the other person’s intent is good.

 

What about competence?  There are two things important about competence too.

 

The first one is abilities (we already talked about that one).  Every martial arts instructor must be a great martial artist first. You have to actually have the abilities. You have to have the fruit on the tree. But even that is not really enough to create trust, at least the ultimate trust.

 

This last one, I think you need … I believe that this is the one that begets trust more than any other thing:  results.  In other other words, here’s the example.  There’s a sign in the dojo that says, “This is a Blackbelt school.”  This is a Blackbelt school. If we say, “This is a Blackbelt school,” and we don’t produce Blackbelts or we don’t produce good Blackbelts, are we really a Blackbelt school?   No.  True story:  back when I opened the school in October of 2000, I already had a specific model in my mind of the psychology of the way we would teach. A gentleman that ran a different school (he was a competitor), he came into my school one day and had some words to say because I was talking about positive reinforcement, building the student from the inside out, creating trust first.  He said, “You can do all that stuff if you want, but you’ll never produce a good Blackbelt.”

 

The point of the story, the reason I share the story, is because back then it was just my word against his. There was no reason for anybody to trust that what I believed was true, other than my word. But when we started producing the best Blackbelts anywhere, who were not only the best Blackbelts in mind and spirit and character and integrity and courtesy and modesty and all the things, but were physically superior to the schools that didn’t teach that way. Now, no one challenges my methods.

 

Let’s bring it closer to home. When you get to know Shihan Harley Del Castillo (my son),  Sensei Church, Sensei Bierly, and Shihan Borton or any of the rest of the KMMA Sensei, don’t you feel like, “Wow, I can not wait to be like that one day.”  That’s trust. And it’s trust because of what? The results!  All the other things too, of course, but the results are the clincher. Every Blackbelt leader is a testament and proof of the results of the system.

 

By the way, it’s not just about the Blackbelt leaders that decided to stay and to teach.  We have incredible KMMA Blackbelts who are in the Army, in the Navy, the Air Force and Marines.  We have KMMA Blackbelts off doing ministry, and all around the world leading in different places.  Every Blackbelt leader is a testament and proof of the results of the system.

 

 

 

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TampaKravMaga.com and Krav Maga Martial Arts have been empowering lives through the martial arts in the Tampa Bay area for 20 years!

Founded in 2000 by Grandmaster Stephen J. Del Castillo, a 7th degree Black Belt and Sr. Master Instructor, Krav Maga Martial Arts and Karate lessons for pre-school children ages 3-6 and elementary age kids ages 7 and up are designed to develop the critical building blocks kids need – specialized for their age group – for school excellence and later success in life.

Krav Maga Martial Arts Adult Krav Maga training is a complete adult self defense, fitness, and conditioning program for adults who want to learn real world self defense, lose weight, and/or get (and stay in shape).

If you have any questions about our program, or would like to go ahead redeem your 2 weeks FREE, you can call us anytime at 813-547-6368 or visit our Krav Maga Martial Arts website.

About Grandmaster Stephen J. Del Castillo: Grandmaster Del Castillo is the founding Master Instructor of Krav Maga Martial Arts and has been empowering lives in Pasco and Hillsborough Counties since October of 2000. He is a 7th degree Blackbelt, MBA, author, mentor and success coach, a US Army Veteran and a proud father and grandfather. He is married to Ms. Barbara Del Castillo who helps him run the school. Grand Master Del Castillo began his training in the early 80’s and has high level blackbelts in Tae Kwon Do, Karate, Premier Martial Arts and Krav Maga Martial Arts as well as experience in kickboxing, Jeet Kune Do and Jiujitsu. He has high level instructor certifications from BBSI, IKMF, and KMG and has been featured in numerous Martial Arts publications and also Success magazine. He was a competitive sport karate and American Kickboxing instructor until he enlisted in the US Army where he served in the 82nd Airborne Division, where he won an Army Green to Gold scholarship and proceeded to ROTC and the University of Tampa. He was commisioned in 1992 and went on to serve in Germany with the 3rd Infantry Division and then in several other posts in the US until he left military service to pursue his dream of creating KMMA in 2000.

The Krav MagaMartial Arts Headquarters is in Lutz, FL at 1900 Land O’ Lakes Blvd., 33549. Krav Maga Martial Arts serves Lutz, Land O’ Lakes, Wesley Chapel, and surrounding areas.

Also, check us out on Fun4TampaKids & on Go2Karate.com

 

 

Super

When I first told people that I was writing a book on developing Blackbelt Superpowers, many were confused what I was talking about.

I mean, sure KMMA Blackbelts develop superhuman Speed and Power.

 

And yes, some can even fly.

 

But the Superpowers I set out to write about and, more importantly to develop in KMMA Future Blackbelts in Training, are far more fundamental than that.

The 6 foundational Superpowers I am refering to are what guarantee that KMMA Blackbelts are prepared to survive and thrive, and enpowered to lead.

 

Join our Team and let us start developing your family’s superpowers today! 

 

  Already training with us?

SUPER! 

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TampaKravMaga.com and Krav Maga Martial Arts have been empowering lives through the martial arts in the Tampa Bay area for 20 years!

Founded in 2000 by Grandmaster Stephen J. Del Castillo, a 7th degree Black Belt and Sr. Master Instructor, Krav Maga Martial Arts and Karate lessons for pre-school children ages 3-6 and elementary age kids ages 7 and up are designed to develop the critical building blocks kids need – specialized for their age group – for school excellence and later success in life.

Krav Maga Martial Arts Adult Krav Maga training is a complete adult self defense, fitness, and conditioning program for adults who want to learn real world self defense, lose weight, and/or get (and stay in shape).

If you have any questions about our program, or would like to go ahead redeem your 2 weeks FREE, you can call us anytime at 813-547-6368 or visit our Krav Maga Martial Arts website.

About Grandmaster Stephen J. Del Castillo: Grandmaster Del Castillo is the founding Master Instructor of Krav Maga Martial Arts and has been empowering lives in Pasco and Hillsborough Counties since October of 2000. He is a 7th degree Blackbelt, MBA, author, mentor and success coach, a US Army Veteran and a proud father and grandfather. He is married to Ms. Barbara Del Castillo who helps him run the school. Grand Master Del Castillo began his training in the early 80’s and has high level blackbelts in Tae Kwon Do, Karate, Premier Martial Arts and Krav Maga Martial Arts as well as experience in kickboxing, Jeet Kune Do and Jiujitsu. He has high level instructor certifications from BBSI, IKMF, and KMG and has been featured in numerous Martial Arts publications and also Success magazine. He was a competitive sport karate and American Kickboxing instructor until he enlisted in the US Army where he served in the 82nd Airborne Division, where he won an Army Green to Gold scholarship and proceeded to ROTC and the University of Tampa. He was commisioned in 1992 and went on to serve in Germany with the 3rd Infantry Division and then in several other posts in the US until he left military service to pursue his dream of creating KMMA in 2000.

The Krav MagaMartial Arts Headquarters is in Lutz, FL at 1900 Land O’ Lakes Blvd., 33549. Krav Maga Martial Arts serves Lutz, Land O’ Lakes, Wesley Chapel, and surrounding areas.

Also, check us out on Fun4TampaKids & on Go2Karate.com

 

The Key To Overcoming Fear

While teaching a class last week, I told the group “the reason I don’t let students watch a Blackbelt test until their Blackbelt test is that it would scare them”. I went on to explain that it would scare them because they are not yet the persons that could pass such a test but that, once they were those people, it would no longer be scary. I’d like to expound upon the point here and demonstrate how preparedness is one of the most key factors in overcoming fear.

 

Fact is that I have a group of students testing for Blackbelt and degrees thereof this coming Sunday. They are nervous, sure, but they are not scared. And that is because they know they’ve prepared. The ones who’ve tested before are even more nervous in some ways, because they know what to expect; but they’re not afraid, because they’ve confronted the challenge and overcome it before. It’s a significant piece of being a Blackbelt- the Confidence that comes from competence and accomplishment.

And like so many things in our training, the phenomenon serves as both an analogy to, and training for, the challenges and opportunities found in the rest of our lives.

 

Let’s consider a little more closely the difference between a beginner watching a Blackbelt test and the Blackbelt taking it. (for the purposes of this illustration the term Blackbelt refers to one that has already won the honor or the one who has been preparing and is a candidate about to prove to the world that he or she is a Blackbelt too!)

 

  • The white belt doesn’t know the stances, strikes, kicks, combinations, how to defend against the myriad of violent attacks that he or she will encounter, nor the Kickboxing sets, nor any of what they need to survive and thrive during the test. But after years of training and patiently applying the law of the process, the Discipline of at least two classes per week over that time and the Intensity of working hard every time to get better every time- the Blackbelt is ready.
  • In most cases the white belt isn’t physically conditioned to endure the cardio and other physical rigors of the test- the Blackbelt is.
  • Even more importantly, the Blackbelt has developed the mental and emotional toughness that makes him or her dig in to win where less trained people would quit.

 

These and other Blackbelt Superpowers prepare the Blackbelt with a special swagger known only to peers of this special knighthood.

 

And while the Blackbelt test itself is a significant life event and accomplishment that the Blackbelt will always remember and treasure, it is more importantly a symbol of who the Blackbelt has become and what he has prepared for.

 

The KMMA Blackbelt is prepared for whatever life brings them.

 

Challenges and opportunities, trials and tribulations that would scare others remind Blackbelts about who they are and what they can do, and that the other side of the test is the promotion.

 

This is as true in all of life’s tests as it is in the one we give our Blackbelts.

 

And it’s true for college, careers, relationships and opportunities as well.

 

In every case, the difference between Fear and Confidence is preparation.

 

This is what we do at Krav Maga Martial Arts.

We prepare people to Live happy and successful lives and to survive and thrive through any challenge; and we empower them to lead themselves and others.

 

It’s our mission and it’s the secret to living a life of Confidence instead of Fear.

 

Call my Team at 813-948-4844 to start Blackbelt training for yourself, your children or your whole family!

 

And to all already on the Quest and especially those of you about to test this weekend, you’re ready!

I’m looking forward to helping you take the next steps in your Blackbelt Leadership story!

 

 

Grand Master Stephen J. Del Castillo

7th Degree Blackbelt, MBA

Founder & Chief Master Instructor, KMMA

TampaKravMaga.com

 

 

KMMA Vision: To raise up tomorrow’s leaders today by providing the culture, training, environment and opportunities so that youth, teens, and adults can grow into the leaders they are called to be – in their families, communities, country and world.

 

   KMMA Mission: We prepare students to Live (survive and thrive) and empower them to Lead!

TampaKravMaga.com and Krav Maga Martial Arts have been empowering lives through the martial arts in the Tampa Bay area for 20 years!

Founded in 2000 by Grandmaster Stephen J. Del Castillo, a 7th degree Black Belt and Sr. Master Instructor, Krav Maga Martial Arts and Karate lessons for pre-school children ages 3-6 and elementary age kids ages 7 and up are designed to develop the critical building blocks kids need – specialized for their age group – for school excellence and later success in life.

Krav Maga Martial Arts Adult Krav Maga training is a complete adult self defense, fitness, and conditioning program for adults who want to learn real world self defense, lose weight, and/or get (and stay in shape).

If you have any questions about our program, or would like to go ahead redeem your 2 weeks FREE, you can call us anytime at 813-547-6368 or visit our Krav Maga Martial Arts website.

About Grandmaster Stephen J. Del Castillo: Grandmaster Del Castillo is the founding Master Instructor of Krav Maga Martial Arts and has been empowering lives in Pasco and Hillsborough Counties since October of 2000. He is a 7th degree Blackbelt, MBA, author, mentor and success coach, a US Army Veteran and a proud father and grandfather. He is married to Ms. Barbara Del Castillo who helps him run the school. Grand Master Del Castillo began his training in the early 80’s and has high level blackbelts in Tae Kwon Do, Karate, Premier Martial Arts and Krav Maga Martial Arts as well as experience in kickboxing, Jeet Kune Do and Jiujitsu. He has high level instructor certifications from BBSI, IKMF, and KMG and has been featured in numerous Martial Arts publications and also Success magazine. He was a competitive sport karate and American Kickboxing instructor until he enlisted in the US Army where he served in the 82nd Airborne Division, where he won an Army Green to Gold scholarship and proceeded to ROTC and the University of Tampa. He was commisioned in 1992 and went on to serve in Germany with the 3rd Infantry Division and then in several other posts in the US until he left military service to pursue his dream of creating KMMA in 2000.

The Krav MagaMartial Arts Headquarters is in Lutz, FL at 1900 Land O’ Lakes Blvd., 33549. Krav Maga Martial Arts serves Lutz, Land O’ Lakes, Wesley Chapel, and surrounding areas.

Also, check us out on Fun4TampaKids & on Go2Karate.com

 

p.s. speaking of respect, congratulations to all the KMMA students about to test for Blackbelt or their next level at our Krav Camp and Blackbelt Leadership Retreat next month! I definitely respect each and all of you for your dedication, hard work and accomplishments!

  CHECK OUT THIS VIDEO FROM OUR LAST GRADUATING CLASS, IN SEPTEMBER 2020.

 

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